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Face-to-face

Posted on May 20, 2012 Written by Tonya

My awesome husband and my oldest and dearest friend, Sophie have been conspiring for months to plan her visit to Southern California for my big 4-0! While she can’t be here in June for my actual birthday, she will be here later this month.

And when I say later this month, I mean in like FIVE days!! I am BEYOND excited!!

Sophie and I met in The Gambia, West Africa in 1985. We became instant best friends and partners in crime (literally and figuratively) and were inseparable for nearly three years. I never had met anyone like her before or since. When we moved in 1988, I was devastated.

I wouldn’t see Sophie again until 2000, but it was as if not a single day had gone by.

Sophie and her husband and two darling daughters, Emma and Noemi live in New Caledonia, off the coast of Australia today and Lucas and I visited them there in the spring of 2010. You can read all about our trip here. Once again, we picked up right where we left off, which I am convinced has to be the mark of a beautiful friendship. We are wives and mothers now and still have a very strong bond even though it is via e-mail, Facebook and Twitter.

Best friends and their children, New Caledonia, May 2010

This will be Sophie’s first visit to the United States and with that comes a lot of pressure! If you had never been to the U.S. before, what “must see” and “must do” items would be on your list?

A planner by nature, I do have all kinds of fun things organized for us to do while she’s here, none of which I can reveal now because Sophie does read my blog, but what I am looking forward to the most is sharing several bottles glasses of wine, sitting in the backyard and talking. Face-to-face.

What a lovely (early) birthday present! I can’t think of a better way to kick off my 40’s.

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Comments

  1. Sophie says

    May 20, 2012 at 9:56 pm

    My goodness! This is making me SO excited. I know I’m coming, but to see it written down, ha, well, I can visualize myself now drinking those bottles, um, I mean glasses of wine with you 😉

    I know it’s my first visit to the States, and I am getting really nervous! What am I going to wear? Will my English be good enough? How far behind am I about everything after living on my little island for 10 years!!! What are the latest trends? 😉

    There are a lot of things I’d love to see in your beautiful country, but this time I’m coming to see YOU! I’ll come and visit your beautiful country on my next trip, whenever that will be! I’m over the moon to be able to come and see you, Lucas and Todd, see Leah again after 24 years… and meet some of your good friends.

    BTW, please don’t tell them I’m funny or anything, because they might not see me the same way as you do!!! Did you tell them I spoke Frenglish?

    See you very soon, my beautiful Friend!

    • Tonya says

      May 22, 2012 at 9:22 pm

      I cannot wait!! 🙂 xoxo Safe travels, my friend.

  2. Jessica says

    May 20, 2012 at 10:44 pm

    So much fun! I’m sure you will find all sorts of fun things to do while they are visiting.

    • Tonya says

      May 22, 2012 at 9:19 pm

      I am so excited!! And it’s just going to be her, kids are in school and all. 🙂 Lucky her, huh and me too!!

  3. Alison@Mama Wants This says

    May 20, 2012 at 11:41 pm

    This is so awesome, am excited for you!! Have a wonderful time!

    • Tonya says

      May 22, 2012 at 9:19 pm

      Thank you, I’m over the moon!

  4. angela says

    May 21, 2012 at 6:10 am

    I can’t wait to hear about what you do together! What an amazing gift, both the friendship and the visit.

    • Tonya says

      May 22, 2012 at 9:19 pm

      I’m very happy, it’s one of the best gifts ever!

  5. Katie says

    May 21, 2012 at 12:09 pm

    What a GREAT gift! Friends like that are one of the best parts of living 🙂

    • Tonya says

      May 22, 2012 at 9:20 pm

      Indeed they are, 🙂

  6. Coreen says

    May 23, 2012 at 3:31 pm

    I’m SO excited to meet her and spend time with you and your dear friend! xo

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    June 21, 2012 at 8:04 pm

    I’m still bummed that I didn’t get to see her. It was just too busy for us all to make it work. 🙁 So happy you got the chance to spend time with her. So glad that you have her in your life.

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