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14 Weeks, 3 Days

Posted on September 12, 2013 Written by Tonya

I had heard rumors that with your second child, you start showing sooner than with your first. Your body has been here before, your stomach muscles aren’t as strong as they were due to the stretching from your first pregnancy, blah, blah, blah.

Turns out, this is true. SO true!

With Lucas I was almost 16 weeks along before there was a real bump. This time around and the real reason we had to share our news, I popped at just over 13 weeks. A full three weeks earlier! I had wanted to wait to tell people until we had made it half way, but, with a dead giveaway right smack dab in the middle of my body, we had to come clean.

I stuffed myself into my favorite pair of size 29, low rise jeans for the Justin Timberlake/Jay Z concert on July 28, the first day I really noticed my body was changing and although it didn’t keep me from dancing my ass off, I was uncomfortable as hell the entire night.

It took my husband a few days after that to get to our storage unit but I was giddy when he walked in the door carrying this….

my relief.

photo

I wore my first maternity clothes at 14 weeks 3 days.

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Comments

  1. Betsy says

    September 12, 2013 at 3:07 pm

    I’m sure you look great! I’d love to see 1st time around vs 2nd time around pics side by side. Hope you’re at least FEELING great. That’s what matters!

    • Tonya says

      September 16, 2013 at 2:58 pm

      I might share photos at some point. I’m a good pregnant person, very few typical symptoms and I feel really good. I know I’m rare and VERY lucky.

  2. Poppy says

    September 12, 2013 at 4:28 pm

    I think the reason I have such conflict with my middle child is because I stuffed her in a pair of Spanx for a wedding before I was ready to announce.

    P.S. This post really needs a selfie!

    • sisters from another mister says

      September 13, 2013 at 6:53 am

      ok, burst out laughing at this one lovely Poppy šŸ™‚

    • Tonya says

      September 16, 2013 at 2:59 pm

      That’s hilarious, Poppy! I just found out about Spanx especially made for preggos. It just doesn’t seem right.

      I’ll share a photo sometime. (:

  3. Nicole says

    September 12, 2013 at 4:47 pm

    I’m so happy for you… (and your big box of fun!!!)

    • Tonya says

      September 16, 2013 at 3:00 pm

      Thank you, Nicole! I love my box o’ comfort.

  4. Heather says

    September 12, 2013 at 10:33 pm

    I was 15 weeks at my best friends wedding (in it of course)… looked like I was a solid 5 months. I remember being very vague with people about my due date. Enjoy it.

    • Tonya says

      September 16, 2013 at 3:00 pm

      Thank you, I am!! Every minute. It was just so shocking to pop so soon.

  5. angela says

    September 13, 2013 at 5:41 am

    I’ll never forget staring in a mirror, changing clothes before we were ready to tell people with Dylan. NOTHING worked, and I kept asking, “Does this make me look pregnant or just fat?” Ryan was at a loss. “There’s no good way to answer that!”

    • Tonya says

      September 16, 2013 at 3:02 pm

      Nope! I don’t like that stage between looking and feeling fat and being pregnant, but I really don’t care what my body does, I’m embracing it. As long as I can be comfortable. (:

  6. Arnebya says

    September 13, 2013 at 5:41 am

    Oh, how this makes me smile. The same happened with me with the second and third (and the third was like whoa). I’m getting so giddy and excited for your family.

    • Tonya says

      September 16, 2013 at 3:04 pm

      Thank you! This is such an exciting time for us. I love watching and feeling my body grow and grow and grow. (:

  7. sisters from another mister says

    September 13, 2013 at 6:54 am

    have a feeling that your glow is going to be your giveaway more than your bump xxx

    • Tonya says

      September 16, 2013 at 3:08 pm

      You are so sweet, thank you!! I’m a good pregnant person, very few typical symptoms and I feel really good. I know I’m rare and VERY lucky.

  8. Jackie says

    September 13, 2013 at 9:08 am

    I wish I could stuff myself into a pair of size 29 jeans not pregnant! I’m sure that you look amazing though.

    I was hoping that you’d share a pic with us though!

    • Tonya says

      September 16, 2013 at 3:10 pm

      Thanks, Jackie! So far I’ve gained almost 20lbs. (eek!!) and have 19 weeks to go. While I’m embracing my new shape, I’ll be dreaming of those pre-pregnancy jeans.

  9. Andrea says

    September 13, 2013 at 2:57 pm

    What a great husband! Yeah, showing early happened with my second, too. I started wearing maternity clothes right around the time you are. I am so excited for you!! xo

    • Tonya says

      September 16, 2013 at 3:11 pm

      It was shocking to me because I thought there was no way, but I was wrong in a big way!! This is a very fun time for us.

  10. Alison says

    September 14, 2013 at 4:07 am

    I was showing at around 13 weeks with #2 as well. I am SO excited and happy for you!! Can’t wait to meet baby!

    • Tonya says

      September 16, 2013 at 3:11 pm

      You and me both!! (:

  11. Kim says

    September 15, 2013 at 7:45 am

    I showed earlier with #2, although I can’t remember by how much. I remember those uncomfortable days before I started wearing maternity clothes, too. Always so much more comfortable with them. So happy for you!

    • Tonya says

      September 16, 2013 at 3:14 pm

      As long as I’m comfortable, I’m a very happy pregnant person!

  12. Maribel Reyes says

    September 16, 2013 at 10:40 am

    I had to switch to maternity clothes sooner with #2 mostly because I felt restricted with normal clothes. I’m glad I did because a week after I began showing significantly! I think I was limiting his space! šŸ™‚ exciting to wear comfy clothes that fit you comfortably right? xo

    • Tonya says

      September 16, 2013 at 3:15 pm

      It’s all about comfort!!

  13. Leah says

    September 23, 2013 at 5:54 pm

    I love seeing that box out again at your place! šŸ™‚ Yay!

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