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Children Learn What They Live

Posted on October 7, 2009 Written by Tonya

I love that the following passage is on a plaque that hung on my bedroom wall growing up and is now hanging in Lucas’ room:

Children Learn What They Live
Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph.D.

If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn.

If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight.
If a child lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy.
If a child lives with shame, he learns to feel guilty.
If a child lives with tolerance, he learns to be patient.
If a child lives with encouragement, he learns confidence.
If a child lives with praise, he learns to appreciate.
If a child lives with fairness, he learns justice.
If a child lives with security, he learns to have faith.
If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself.
If a child lives with acceptance and friendship, he learns to find love in the world.

What wonderful parenting advice! Children mirror what they see at home and this illustrates what they should be witnessing and what we will strive for in our house. After all, aren’t the best lessons learned at home?

The best is yet to be.

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  1. Amanda {My Life Badly Written} says

    October 8, 2009 at 5:25 am

    This is soooo true!! Great post!

    I have honoured you with an award on my blog – come take a look!

  2. Gingerbreadmama says

    October 8, 2009 at 5:48 pm

    I love this!

  3. Leah says

    October 8, 2009 at 10:35 pm

    thats great!

  4. Jennifer says

    October 12, 2009 at 3:13 pm

    How amazing! I still have a wall hanging with this exact passage that I received as a small child. How true the words are, and I only wish that more knew the passage as well.

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