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Dotting I’s & Crossing T’s

Posted on November 14, 2013 Written by Tonya

We’ve been reading the books, reminiscing about when he was a baby, letting him pick out onesies, answering and asking a lot of questions, visiting friends with newborns and talking about how things are going change, but no matter how hard we try to dot all the i’s and cross all the t’s, nothing can truly prepare our household for a baby or Lucas to be a big brother.

After learning from a good friend that there was such a thing as a Sibling Preparation Class, I promptly took to the Web and signed up Lucas.

I figured it couldn’t hurt for him to hear from someone other than Mommy and Daddy how to be helpful, patient and careful with his baby sister, our baby, as we call her. Lucas even got a lesson in swaddling and diaper changing.

Seeing the gleam in his eyes as he shared with the instructor how he has seen our baby doing somersaults on a computer screen in the doctor’s office made my night, but I especially loved how he suggested that someday his little sister attend a sibling class of her own so that she can learn how to be a good sibling too. My smart little firstborn.

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Day 14: Today I am thankful for my husband’s successful business, European Collectibles on PCH, a classic car dealership. It is his dream realized and our livelihood and today is celebrating its three year anniversary! #30daysofgratitude

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Comments

  1. Alison says

    November 15, 2013 at 2:26 am

    Love that there is such a course, that’s awesome!
    Lucas will be a very good big brother – he already has that in his heart. xo

  2. Kerstin @ Auer Life says

    November 15, 2013 at 6:40 am

    I had no idea they had courses like that – that’s so great! I believe one can never be too prepared and I know my kids always like to have an opinion other than mine…
    Also – congrats to your husband’s business anniversary, it’s awesome to live your dream!

  3. anna whiston-donaldson says

    November 15, 2013 at 7:34 am

    Love this idea! So glad it was a good course.

  4. Jennifer says

    November 15, 2013 at 11:22 am

    I took Cady to one of these classes. The kids painted a baby tshirt for their little brothers and sisters. I still have the one she made. A few days afterward she was walking around carrying her life-size doll by the head. “Is that how you’re supposed to carry a baby?” My nervous momma heart was freaking out. A flat look my way, “No, but this isn’t a real baby.” Thankfully she never tried to cover James around by his head.

  5. Jackie says

    November 15, 2013 at 6:14 pm

    He is going to be the best big brother ever!

  6. Kim@Co-Pilot Mom says

    November 16, 2013 at 7:10 am

    What a great course! He will be an awesome big brother. 🙂

  7. Leigh Ann says

    November 16, 2013 at 11:31 am

    I love how little kids are so excited to be big brothers and sisters. Sometimes you think they will be jealous and averse to the idea, but they really do take to it!

  8. sarah reinhart says

    November 17, 2013 at 4:24 am

    aw, this warms my heart so much! I love all the ways you’re including Lucas in the whole process. He will be so ready! Well, as ready as a brother can be. Love.

  9. erin margolin says

    November 17, 2013 at 2:11 pm

    SO exciting for all of you! Cannot wait!
    😉
    He’s going to be the best big brother ever!
    xo

  10. Andrea says

    November 17, 2013 at 6:12 pm

    There’s nothing better than a young child being excited to be a big brother or sister! How much fun are you having right now? 🙂

  11. Leah says

    November 19, 2013 at 5:27 pm

    There is a class for this? Wow! That’s pretty neat! I have no doubt in my mind that Lucas will be a fantastic big brother! I know that I can’t wait to have a niece!!!

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