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Letter To My Blogging Buddies

Posted on August 14, 2012 Written by Tonya

When I think about Alison, I rarely recall that she lives a world away in Malaysia. Instead, I think of her good nature, amazing support (she is usually the very first comment I revive on any given blog post) and beautiful words that I never miss on her newly revamped, Writing, Wishing.

Although I hope to someday, I’ve never Alison in real life and yet I consider her a friend.

And I know I’m not alone.

That’s the beauty of technology, the Internet and the blogging community.

I am proud to have Alison here today sharing a heartfelt letter to all her friends in the computer. 🙂

“A friend who is far away is sometimes much nearer than one who is at hand. Is not the mountain far more awe-inspiring and more clearly visible to one passing through the valley than to those who inhabit the mountain?”

― Kahlil Gibran

My dearest blogging buddies,

I’m writing this letter to you today to thank you.

To thank you for being a friend. Not just any friend, not just an online friend, but a true friend.

People who don’t blog or participate in any form of social media will never understand the depth of friendships that develop over keystrokes and this screen which separates us (okay, oceans that separate us).

You were there for me through my second pregnancy, where I battled anxiety over whether I could handle two children.

You assured me that I can do this.

You were there for me through the times when I thought I’d lose it in the midst of the terrible twos with my toddler.

You told me that I was doing great, doing my best and that I’d get through it.

You were there for me when I was going through a blogging burnout.

You had my back, said you’ll wait for me to get my groove back, and you did.

You were there for me to celebrate the birth of my second son.

Your many tweets, messages, emails, comments buoyed me through the first hard month of adjusting to a new routine.

You were there for me when I questioned my writing, my blog presence.

You supported me through it all by continuing to read my words, to share yours with me.

My friends, you have no idea how much you mean to me.

Now, I hope you do.

Love,
Your faraway, but true friend, Alison

Tonya, thank you for asking me to be here today. Know that this letter, is for you too. xo

Follow Alison on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Pinterest.

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Odd Ball

Posted on April 12, 2012 Written by Tonya

Last week Alison of Mama Wants This wrote a piece called Quirks, where she shared 10 strange and wonderful things she does and not only did I nod along (2. Toilet paper in my house is OVER the spool. Never under. Under bothers me. Tremendously.) but I laughed out loud (8. I don’t like uneven numbers. Like 7.), then I thought, I have some pretty strange quirks myself.

Don’t we all?

Here are 10 of my odd ball idiosyncrasies:

1. I don’t like coffee. Of any kind. In a Starbucks world, this gets a lot of strange reactions, trust me, especially when I order Chai tea lattes.

2. I organize the dollar bills in my wallet from smallest to largest with the Presidents always facing me.

3. I can’t get one hand wet without getting the other one wet too.

4. Towels in our bathrooms have to be lined up straight over the towel rack.

5. I love the beach, but despise sand.

6.Whining makes me want to mash my teeth in, especially if it’s my own son’s.

7. I don’t like to eat food with my hands. Not even pizza.

8. I an an over-stocker. I always have a Kleenex, toothpaste, toothbrushes, Q-tips and dish soap waiting in the wings; and we never run out of toilet paper or paper towels in my house.

9. One of the very first things I do in the morning (even before I pee) is make the bed. To me a made bed is the foundation for a good day.

10. I cannot start a book or movie without finishing it. There have two exceptions in the book category: The Hunger Games (I know, I know) and The Book Thief. Both are still on my book shelf and I WILL get to them. Someday…

Thanks, Alison for the idea and rest assured, you are not alone in your quirks.

Please feel free to share some of yours below! Us oddballs need to stick together.

 

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