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To My Sister

Posted on October 11, 2011 Written by Tonya

If you don’t know who Jessica of My Time As Mom is, you must be living under a rock.

It truly is as simple as that.

First of all, she has a wonderful blog, is ALWAYS! on Twitter, is a Social Media Specialist for Eli Rose and co-founder of Vlog Talk, a weekly vlog meme. On top of all that, she is a killer Scrabble player ( speaking as the opponent who ass she kicks all the time) and is the kindest and most helpful person I probably have ever encountered.

I am so happy to have Jessica here today sharing a letter to her sister, Victoria.

To My Sister,

We have always been opposites.

From our hair to our shoes to our personalities.

The expressions salt and pepper and night and day have been used to describe us many times.

We have had our ups and downs in life.

We have laughed over stupid jokes and mom’s hair.

We have cried over the loss of family members and other things that I can’t remember.

We went many months without speaking to each other.

But we have always been sisters.

And we will always be sisters.

I know we don’t talk as often as we should and I don’t tell you I love enough.

But I do and my life wouldn’t be the same without you.

Although if I was you, I would recommend that you not listen to me the next time I tell you to shove a sock in your mouth. 

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Comments

  1. Jessica says

    October 11, 2011 at 9:01 pm

    Thank you so much Tonya for allowing me to share this letter to my sister. I sent it to her on her birthday last week and it made her cry.

  2. Alison@Mama Wants This says

    October 11, 2011 at 9:07 pm

    Sweet letter, Jessica. There’s nothing like a sister relationship. Cute picture too!

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 9:38 am

      Thank you Alison!

  3. Kimberly says

    October 11, 2011 at 9:09 pm

    This just brought tears to my eyes. There is nothing like that sister bond. My sister and I have certainly had our ups and downs, but through it all, we’ve always been there for each other.

    Great letter, Jessica!

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 9:38 am

      My sister and I have had many downs but we always come back together and enjoy the ups.

  4. Practical Parenting says

    October 11, 2011 at 9:44 pm

    This is beautiful, and I love that picture!

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 9:39 am

      Thank you Katie! I love this picture too.

  5. Carri says

    October 11, 2011 at 10:11 pm

    What a sweet letter! You two look totally opposite. My question is, Does your sister like porn martinis?

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 9:40 am

      That is a good question. Last time she came over she had a blood orange margarita instead of a porn martini.

  6. Bridget says

    October 11, 2011 at 10:26 pm

    Sweetness! I think I’ll forward this to my sister-except the sock part 😉

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 9:41 am

      Ha! Yes, change the sock part to something stupid you did to your sister.

  7. Christine Candelaria says

    October 11, 2011 at 11:14 pm

    This is why I’m so glad I have 2 girls. I missed out on having a sister growing up!

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 9:41 am

      It really is a special bond to have a sister.

  8. Theresa says

    October 11, 2011 at 11:25 pm

    You are guys are like S&P, so sweet! Sisters are awesome, you are so lucky to have one…. xo

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 9:42 am

      We have always been opposites of each other.

  9. Mirjam says

    October 12, 2011 at 12:59 am

    That’s really sweet. I know what that’s like, I have two sisters. I can’t live without them but sometimes I can’t live with them either.

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 9:43 am

      That’s how it goes sometimes with siblings.

  10. Stasha says

    October 12, 2011 at 3:24 am

    Salt and pepper compliment most dishes!

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 9:53 am

      Yes they do.

  11. By Word of Mouth Musings says

    October 12, 2011 at 4:41 am

    I always wanted a sister and my brother and I have such a huge gap. Every day i hope and pray that my girls will have a great bond as they grow older because, yes, they are so very different.
    Like chalk and cheese as we say or salt and pepper — which i like … – what a blessing!

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 9:54 am

      Chalk and cheese is a strange combination but I hope they have a great bond as they get older.

  12. Dana K says

    October 12, 2011 at 4:56 am

    My sister & I don’t even look related…and she was a planned only child. You can imagine how (un)happy she was when I ruined that monopoly. 😉

    She’s still my sister, though, and we’ll defend each other to our graves…even if we aren’t speaking to each other.

    Very sweet letter.

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 9:56 am

      I bet she harassed you plenty to make up for ruining that monopoly.

  13. Jessica says

    October 12, 2011 at 5:13 am

    So sweet and makes me want a sister yet again. You two are both GORGEOUS!

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 9:59 am

      I hope your children grow up to have strong bonds.

  14. Galit Breen says

    October 12, 2011 at 5:48 am

    Beautiful words and gorgeous picture!

    And ohmygod- the sock! I die.

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 10:00 am

      Yeah, the sock pulled out one of her teeth. It was pretty funny when we were kids.

  15. Kir says

    October 12, 2011 at 6:35 am

    sisters!!!!! I am so in touch with this feeling…I love her, I hate her, she drives me crazy, she knows me MORE than any person in the whole world.

    I love that picture and the Salt & Pepper line, it reminds me so much of how different my sister and I are…and how much I adore her, would do anything for you and would beat up anyone who hurt a hair on her head.
    Loved it.

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 10:01 am

      My sister and I have always been up and down in our relationship but as we grow older it seems we are able to get along better.

  16. liz says

    October 12, 2011 at 6:43 am

    I really, really love the photo of the two of you!

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 10:01 am

      Thanks! Me too.

  17. John says

    October 12, 2011 at 7:03 am

    I think we need a full background on that sock story.

    That’s a truly gorgeous picture . . . I have to imagine that all of the kids in your neighborhood, growing up, were uggos, because it looks like you stole all of the pretty.

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 10:01 am

      I made my sister put a sock in her mouth as a kid and when she pulled it out and tooth came out too.

  18. Barbara says

    October 12, 2011 at 7:14 am

    What a sweet letter! I need to tell my sister these things sometimes, we are also complete opposites.

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 10:01 am

      It’s funny to see how siblings can be so opposite.

  19. Devan @ Accustomed Chaos says

    October 12, 2011 at 7:25 am

    so sweet & i swear you could be describing my sister and I!

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 3:49 pm

      It seems many of us are opposites of our siblings.

  20. Optimistic Mom says

    October 12, 2011 at 7:37 am

    Great picture. Sisters are the best, I have two of them. So many fun times together.

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 3:49 pm

      Lots of fun times together.

  21. Victoria says

    October 12, 2011 at 7:50 am

    Thank you for writing this. You mean so much to me and I look up to you more than you know. I love you so much!!… And don’t worry, no more socks (because I’ve already lost all my baby teeth) and I certainly won’t listen when you hand me a razor!!! 

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 3:50 pm

      It seems you are getting smarter in your old age sister. 😉

  22. Cookie's Mom says

    October 12, 2011 at 7:52 am

    Aw, sweet. Makes me miss my sister. She just had a birthday too and I couldn’t be there. Cute picture of you two!

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 3:50 pm

      It’s difficult to live far away from family sometimes.

  23. Elena says

    October 12, 2011 at 8:22 am

    That is such a great photo of the two of you! What a sweet letter – I’m sure they were happy tears. I think I need to see your mom’s hair now. 😉

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 3:51 pm

      Dude, my mom’s hair is hilarious sometimes. I should do a post about it.

  24. Minivan Mama says

    October 12, 2011 at 9:02 am

    Makes me thing of my sister. So special!

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 3:51 pm

      I’m happy to hear it made you think of your sister.

  25. Natalie says

    October 12, 2011 at 9:08 am

    Awww I’ve always wanted a sister! Happy birthday to her and may you guys have many more years full of sisterly banter! 🙂

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 3:51 pm

      It’s definitely been an experience to have a sister. I hope my two girls appreciate each other as they get older.

  26. RachelJoy says

    October 12, 2011 at 9:53 am

    So sweet…It’s crazy how different you guys look but even that isn’t as strong as your love for each other. Happy Birthday to you sister!

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 3:52 pm

      We are complete opposites in our looks. Sometimes I can’t believe we are related.

  27. Roxanne says

    October 12, 2011 at 10:57 am

    What a beautiful letter to your sister. And that picture? Pure joy.

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 3:52 pm

      Thank you Roxanne!

  28. Julie @ mamamash says

    October 12, 2011 at 11:11 am

    I gave my sister a pillow once that said “I’m smiling because you’re my sister and I’m laughing because there’s nothing you can do about it.”

    I know exactly what you’re saying here…and you did a great job saying it. I’ll bet she did cry a bunch!

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 3:52 pm

      Now that’s a good saying.

  29. Natalie @MamaTrack says

    October 12, 2011 at 11:40 am

    I love this. My sister and I are opposites too, and we have a very special relationship. Sisters really are awesome, aren’t they?

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 3:53 pm

      They are awesome and I hope my girls realize this.

  30. Miss Marina Star says

    October 12, 2011 at 12:28 pm

    What a sweet letter. And a lovely picture as well.

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 3:53 pm

      Thank you! I love this picture.

  31. Grumpy Grateful Mom says

    October 12, 2011 at 12:34 pm

    Love it! And that picture of you two is gorgeous! My two girls are opposites too, but I hope they grow up to appreciate and love each other.

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 3:55 pm

      I hope they do too.

  32. Cam says

    October 12, 2011 at 2:34 pm

    sweet letter! you two are beautiful. 🙂

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 3:55 pm

      Thank you Cam!

  33. Runnermom-jen says

    October 12, 2011 at 3:59 pm

    Awwww, so sweet Jessica!!! I can see why your sister got a little teary-eyed. There’s nothing better than sisters 🙂

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 10:32 pm

      Sisters are great for so many reasons.

  34. Nicole says

    October 12, 2011 at 4:01 pm

    So sweet!

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 10:33 pm

      Thank you!

  35. jacqui says

    October 12, 2011 at 5:00 pm

    I love that photo! And your letter to your sister is perfect. I’m sure she loved it!

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 10:33 pm

      Thank you Jacqui. I think she did.

  36. julie gardner says

    October 12, 2011 at 6:11 pm

    How cute are you two? (Seriously. How cute!)

    I love this series and the fact that people share special words for others with us…

    It makes me think (really) about the people I should thank or reconnect with or REMIND how much I care; how grateful I am to have them in my life.

    So thanks Tonya for creating the lovely Letters for You; and thanks Jessica for making me want to go call Nancy right now.

    XO

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 10:34 pm

      You’re welcome and thank you!

      I hope to see you have a letter featured here. I would love to read your special words.

  37. Jamie says

    October 12, 2011 at 6:36 pm

    Nothing beats the bond of a sister, high or low – can’t compare!

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 10:35 pm

      So true.

  38. Poppy says

    October 12, 2011 at 9:56 pm

    Sisters always have each others back even if they are making each other eat toenail sandwiches 🙂 So who is older?

    • Jessica says

      October 12, 2011 at 10:35 pm

      That’s nasty but I’m sure I would have tried it on my sister if I could have when we were younger.

      I’m older by 2 years.

  39. tracy@sellabitmum says

    October 13, 2011 at 6:10 am

    I love this and have always yearn for a sister – So I am so thankful for my 3 girls…the eldest two remind me of the two of you – so different.

    • Jessica says

      October 13, 2011 at 11:51 pm

      I hope your girls grow up to have a very special bond.

  40. Tim@sogeshirts says

    October 13, 2011 at 4:12 pm

    Great post Jessica. Your relationship with your sister reminds me of my gf’s relationship wit her sister. Sometimes they fight and don’t talk to each other for awhile but at the end of the day they love each other.

    • Jessica says

      October 13, 2011 at 11:52 pm

      Exactly. At the end of the day you are still family and that’s what’s important.

  41. Elizabeth says

    October 13, 2011 at 5:39 pm

    what a lovely post and a great picture of you two!

    • Jessica says

      October 13, 2011 at 11:52 pm

      Thank you! I love this picture of me and my sister.

  42. Jessica says

    October 14, 2011 at 8:47 am

    That is SO sweet. My sister and I are the best of friends–I love that sister bond

    • Jessica says

      October 16, 2011 at 3:24 pm

      The sister bond is a wonderful thing to have.

  43. Jessica says

    October 14, 2011 at 11:21 am

    This is such a sweet letter and I love the picture at the end! I’m a sister and love it. Wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world. My sister and I have our ups and downs, but at the end of the day, we’re best friends.

    • Jessica says

      October 16, 2011 at 3:25 pm

      So happy to hear your sister is your best friend.

  44. Robin @ Farewell, Stranger says

    October 14, 2011 at 8:40 pm

    That’s awesome Jessica. You look quite different!

    • Jessica says

      October 16, 2011 at 3:25 pm

      Thanks Robin! We’ve always looked complete opposites.

  45. Rachel {at} Mommy Needs a Vacation says

    October 15, 2011 at 8:04 am

    What a beautiful letter Jessica!

    • Jessica says

      October 16, 2011 at 3:25 pm

      Thank you Rachel!

  46. Leah says

    October 27, 2011 at 10:28 pm

    What an amazing letter and I love that she really did give it to her on birthday this year. Sometimes I think we are total opposites too but then I turn around and laugh or cry at something and I know that you would be the only to do the same thing right along with me. 🙂 XOXOX Love you dear sister.

  47. Roger Vivier Sale says

    July 21, 2014 at 2:39 pm

    To My Sister
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