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Gene

Posted on March 4, 2012 Written by Tonya

A friend passed away on Tuesday.

A friend my family has known for 29 years.

A friend that even though wasn’t thought of on a daily basis, we shared a chapter of our lives together. He and his wife, Nellie lived down the street from my family for two years when we all lived in Karachi, Pakistan and a lifelong kinship was born. That tends to happen when you live overseas.

A friend just three days shy of turning 70 years old is no longer with us.

An amazing photographer, cook, teacher, world traveler and much, much more.

Gene, you will be sorely missed.

My heart goes out to Nellie, whom I can’t wait to hug on Thursday at Gene’s Memorial Service.

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Comments

  1. Kimberly says

    March 4, 2012 at 9:33 pm

    I am so very sorry for your loss.

    • Tonya says

      March 10, 2012 at 10:02 am

      Thanks, Kimberly.

  2. Alison@Mama Wants This says

    March 4, 2012 at 9:38 pm

    So sorry for your loss, Tonya.

    • Tonya says

      March 10, 2012 at 10:02 am

      Thank you, Alison.

  3. Practical Parenting says

    March 4, 2012 at 9:46 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending hugs.

    • Tonya says

      March 10, 2012 at 10:03 am

      Thank you, kindly.

  4. Kir says

    March 5, 2012 at 4:33 am

    Oh sweetie..I am so sorry for your loss. Please take my love with you as you hug Nellie…let her feel the sympathy of all of us.
    Xoxo

    • Tonya says

      March 10, 2012 at 10:03 am

      I did indeed, thanks, Kirsten!

  5. Stephanie says

    March 5, 2012 at 6:12 am

    I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Hugs to you as you grieve.

    • Tonya says

      March 10, 2012 at 10:03 am

      Thank you, Stephanie.

  6. Kat says

    March 5, 2012 at 7:13 am

    So so sad!! Big hugs for your family and for Nellie!

    • Tonya says

      March 10, 2012 at 10:04 am

      Thank you, Kat.

  7. Jessica says

    March 5, 2012 at 3:51 pm

    I’m sorry to hear about the loss of your friend.

    • Tonya says

      March 10, 2012 at 10:04 am

      Thanks, Jessica. He was a good man.

  8. Galit Breen says

    March 6, 2012 at 8:10 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear this, Tonya.

    So very much love to you, and yours. xo

  9. Tonya says

    March 10, 2012 at 10:04 am

    Thank you, Galit. xo

  10. Robin @ Farewell, Stranger says

    March 11, 2012 at 1:10 pm

    So sorry to hear this, Tonya.

  11. Carri says

    March 11, 2012 at 7:29 pm

    I’m so sorry.

  12. Leah says

    March 15, 2012 at 6:17 pm

    It really is so sad that he passed away. When I think of Nellie now, it breaks my heart. What the heck do you do with yourself when the man you’ve been married to/lived with for the past 30 plus years is gone? I just can’t imagine that loss… RIP Gene.

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