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Old School Blogging: The Holiday Edition

Posted on December 18, 2013 Written by Tonya

Today I am linking up with Elaine of The Miss Elaine-ous Life and Kir of The Kir Corner for this month’s Old School Blogging: The Holiday Edition! If you’re not familiar with Old School Blogging, it’s where bloggers revive blogging memes that went around years ago.

 

Do you Celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah, or both?

santa

Ho Ho Ho!! Does this answer the question? (:

Peppermint or Chocolate?

Chocolate. Always chocolate. 

Sing us into the Holiday Season. What is your favorite carol this time of year?

I have a play list of over nine hours of holiday music! For me it’s not Christmastime until I hear Wham’s Last Christmas or Paul McCartney’s Wonderful Christmastime, but I adore the lyrics to Grown Up Christmas List:

No more lives torn apart
That wars would never start
And time would heal all hearts
And everyone would have a friend,
Right would always win,
Love would never end.
This is my grown up Christmas list

– David Foster (music), Linda Thompson-Jenner and Amy Grant (lyrics)

Tell us about a favorite family or personal holiday tradition.

One of my favorite family holiday traditions on Christmas Day was after all the presents were opened and prominently displayed in front of the tree (another tradition), we would go to a movie. Many big blockbusters open on Christmas Day and we always had fun trying to agree on which one to see. After the movie we would come home and make leftover turkey sandwiches and each have a slice (or two) of pie. Chocolate pudding for me, pumpkin for my dad, and pecan for my mom and sister. It’s hard to believe that this will be my sixth Christmas without my parents, but my sister and I have kept up this tradition.

Come on, you remember your favorite Christmas gift.  Tell us all about it.

In November 2007, a month after my parents died, my husband, sister and I traveled to Tunisia to visit the school, ACST (American Cooperative School of Tunis), where they worked. We wanted to spend time where they last had, visit with their colleagues and gain some peace and understanding. It was also important to me to be the ones that cleared out their home.

It was a difficult trip to say the least, but necessary for our grieving process. We were met with much understanding and support and much of the time we were not only being consoled but were consoling.

In a very touching ceremony, the school planted two olive trees in a common area on campus and dedicated one to each of my parents while we were in town.

That year for Christmas my husband had an olive tree planted for me in our side yard.

I love this tree and will always appreciate the kind gesture that my husband made in finding and having it planted at our home. It will forever remind me of our trip to Tunis, the two trees that grow and bloom there in memory of my parents and of course, my parents themselves.

This poor tree has been uprooted and been living in a box for almost two years. This week it was planted in the front yard at our new house where it will hopefully grow and flourish.

tree

December 16, 2013

That magical moment: your favorite scene from a holiday movie.

It’s A Wonderful Life is my favorite holiday movie and I love when Clarence tells George: “You see George, you really had a wonderful life.” Ah… gets me every time.

Kissing under the mistletoe. Who do you hope is standing underneath (we know it’s normally your spouse, but if it did not have to be, who would you choose)?

Ryan Gosling.

Duh.

Swans a swimming, lords a leaping, golden rings: which gift of the 12 days of Christmas would you like most?

None! Unless those maids do more than milking.

Play Secret Santa. What inappropriate gift would you love to give this year?

Hmmm… I’m going to have to give this some thought but Ryan Gosling and a big red bow come to mind. Just off the top pf my head.

Martha Stewart or the Grinch? What is your decorating style?

I wish I could say Martha Stewart, but I really fall somewhere in between. Someday I want to splurge and have lights professionally installed on the front of our house. I looked into it this year, but was shocked at how utterly ridiculously expensive it is. I like to get our tree up early and I have a motley crew of Christmas guys (stuffed animals) displayed around the house and holiday towels for the guest bathroom. I am grateful that we haven’t started the Elf on the Shelf madness yet!

What is ONE WORD that defines the holiday season for you?

Believe! 

If Santa could assure its delivery, what’s the first thing on your holiday wish LIST?

The safe delivery of a healthy baby girl, born anytime after January 1, 2014! 

If you want to play along or read other Old School Blogging: Holiday Edition lists, visit The Miss Elaine-ous Life or The Kir Corner and then compile your own! Don’t forget to tweet it out using the hashtag #OSBlog. Happy Christmas, everyone!

 

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  • Loving & Loathing The Holidays

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Comments

  1. Jennifer says

    December 18, 2013 at 12:56 pm

    Oh my gosh. I’m totally crying over the tree.

  2. Elaine A. says

    December 18, 2013 at 1:41 pm

    Perfect spot for your tree! I haven’t watched It’s a Wonderful Life in a while. I did not like it as a kid so I wonder if I would like it more now… I guess I need to cue it up! Merry Christmas, so glad you linked up with us, Tonya!! 😀

  3. Kerstin @ Auer Life says

    December 18, 2013 at 2:57 pm

    Love this, Tonya! That picture with Santa is great, Lucas looks so happy and excited.
    I’m glad you picked Ryan Gosling for the mistletoe, because I already have to fight someone for Christian Bale 🙂

  4. Kim@Co-Pilot Mom says

    December 18, 2013 at 3:34 pm

    What a wonderful present. So glad your tree is planted at your new home now.
    I have never seen It’s A Wonderful Life all the way through. I have heard so much about it this year that I think I might have to find it.

  5. Alison says

    December 18, 2013 at 8:35 pm

    I love the story of the olive tree. May it grow and blossom, just like your family.

    xoxo

  6. Katie Sluiter says

    December 19, 2013 at 11:12 am

    I ADORE the story about the olive tree.

    And I do love It’s A Wonderful Life.

  7. Kir says

    December 19, 2013 at 11:14 am

    there is so much to love about this list, about you, about Christmas and this GIFT you just gave me with your words is already a favorite of mine this year.

    Grown up Christmas List (I enjoy Natalie Cole’s version) is a beautiful song about giving more of yourself than things and I adore every verse too.

    the olive trees are such a simple but profound expression of remembrance and love (always love) and that pic of Lucas on Santa’s lap…well does it get any more JOYFUL than that?

    MERRY MERRY CHRISTMAS my beautiful friend and I can’t wait for Baby Girl to arrive. Her “Auntie Kir” loves her already. xoxo

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  9. Leah says

    January 6, 2014 at 4:52 pm

    Those are my Christmas songs too!!

    Giving you that olive tree was so lovely and it came at such a perfect time too. Well done, Todd!

    Ryan Gosling with a big red bow sounds pretty amazing to me!

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